- Walk through your space and play a tibetan bell or a gong to balance the energy of your home. Let meditative music play while you are away and while you sleep.
- Burn incense and candles so it smells delicious.
- Keep a vase stocked with fresh flowers for beauty (and scent).
- Chant mantras, listen to music, pray or sing over your food as your prepare it to balance its energy.
- Keep plenty of living plants around to add beauty, life and to clear the air. Touch them and express appreciation for them as you care for them.
Thursday, September 17, 2009
Good Vibrations
Sunday, June 7, 2009
Just Want To Clear The Air Here...
Most of us retreat to our homes after schlepping through rush-hour traffic thinking that we are escaping the pollution. There is, however, a good deal of research that has shown indoor pollution to be worse than outdoor pollution. This makes sense, as there aren't walls and a roof over the interstate.
Before donning the Hazmat Suit, take a trip to your local nursery and grab a few plants for your home and office. Plants not only purify the air and provide fresh oxygen—they are also some of the most powerful Feng Shui tools around.
There are many books ("How To Grow Fresh Air" by B.C. Wolverton) and websites that discuss this for further reading about which plants are best for which indoor situations, and for which plants are best for Feng Shui—and which are not (which are pretty much just cacti and any plant that looks like it could—or actually could—hurt you).
For those of us who would rather die than put a Ficus Tree in our living room—there are many other options that won't leave your home looking like a porno set.
a Dracaena "Janet Craig" Plant
According to NASA (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_air-filtering_plants), The Dracaena "Janet Craig" Palm, that specializes in removing Tricholoroethylene—we don't even know what that is, but it doesn't sound like something we'd want wafting through baby's room. This also removes most known pollutants in general.
English Ivy
Peace Lily
And, there is the ever-faithful Peace Lily. A Feng Shui favorite, which, as it so happens, is also one of the top removers of toxins.
In addition to cleaning the air, having plants in your home and office are great Feng Shui. They regulate energy, are symbols of prosperity, and can also demonstrate your space's ability to sustain life. In other words, if you're caring for your plants properly and they're still dying—it may be a good sign that it's time to find somewhere that is more conducive to the creative and abundant lifestyle you desire.
Sunday, May 17, 2009
A Handy Feng Shui Bagua
Saturday, May 16, 2009
Road Shui
- Just like you would hang a round Feng Shui crystal just inside your front door, you may hang one from your rearview mirror to disperse incoming energy.
- Put a little picture on the driver's side dash (Travel Section) of somewhere you'd like to travel.
- Keep a little Bagua in the car under the front floor mat.
- Try red floor mats in the back, as red attracts Chi, as well as spans across the three back sections; Love, Fame and Wealth.
- String some red ribbon through some Chinese coins and put them in the Wealth section
WARNING: there are people that sell Bagua mirrors specifically for cars. This is just going to make things miserable for those around you (and, eventually, will come back around), especially at freeway speeds.
A Handy Feng Shui Diagram
The ancient Chinese art of Feng Shui is quite complex, and there are myriad books written on the subject. However, to get started, you may use the handy diagram above to determine where the nine specific sections are in your space.
This diagram shows which colors are best for each area, as well as which shapes. For instance, triangles are great in the Fame and Reputation section, as well as the color red; Creativity and Children likes circles and white. So you can start by using this diagram to walk around your space and see what's going on in the various sections.
There are two schools of Feng Shui, one that uses the front door as the reference; while the other uses a compass to determine what goes where—they both use the same Bagua. If one resonates more with you, that's fine. Either way this will help you.
Mirror, Mirror, on the Door—What's a Bagua Mirror For?
How to determine whether a Bagua mirror is necessary for you.
From the inside, open your front door and look straight ahead. Does it feel calm and peaceful? If so, then you're probably fine without one.
If not, let's try and figure out why. It's probably pretty obvious—a road aiming right for you (energy moving way too fast); a big tree, streetlight or some other flow-disrupting obstacle (energy moving too slow); or perhaps the corner of a building or other pointy object aiming at you (energy too concentrated [aka: Arrow Chi]).
Those are just a few of the myriad examples that could be affecting your energy—you get the idea. You should know the moment you open the door whether or not it's necessary.
Okay, I need one. May I go to Chinatown now???
Yes, but one more thing, and I'm only saying this because I have been in stores and noticed that all three varieties of Bagua mirrors are available, with no explanation attached.
What you want is a flat Bagua mirror (the circular mirror part in the middle). The other two varieties: convex and concave, are used for absorption and reversal, respectively, and should only be used under specific circumstances by professionals (usually on a temporary basis).
I got my flat Bagua mirror—where do I put it?
It is recommended to put the flat Bagua Mirror above your front door (they usually have a little nail thingy), however, you may put it on the front door, wherever it feels good.
Where do I not put it?
Whatever you do, DO NOT USE A BAGUA MIRROR INSIDE. I didn't know any better when I first got into Feng Shui and put a convex Bagua mirror on my bedroom door, and things got really intense with a roomate situation and I couldn't figure out why until much later when I discovered that both inside and concave were no-nos.
Trust yourself.
As with any Feng Shui cure, it is your intention that is most important. So, use your intuition. Pay attention to how the energy is feeling to you, then adjust accordingly.
Meet me at the flagpole. 3pm.
"You wanna take this outside?"
This is obviously to avoid a bar brawl, suspension from school—or offended children.
In Feng Shui, we take energy very seriously. There is no "bad" energy—there is only energy (or "Chi"). And it is all about flowing. Like most things, when it gets stuck or is moving too fast, it can have adverse effects.
Most of us have experienced having a heated argument with someone, or walked into a room where you "could cut the tension with a knife...". Those are great examples of "stuck" energy.
There is no "arguee" in an argument—just two or more arguers. An argument is two conflicting opinions, always resulting (at least temporarily) in a deadlock. (Read: stuck energy.)
I once heard someone say "the best way to stop an argument is to stop arguing". That is probably the best advice, as it will avoid the inevitable impasse. However, that's easier said than done.
So, if you must argue—take it outside.
Why start an "energy brawl" in your living room?—leave your living room to living.
At the onset of any argument, step up and say "let's take this outside!". Worst-case-scenario, the other person will say "No! I'm not moving until we settle this!", then you can go outside and have a one-sided argument and a pleasant walk.